Yes! The matching process is mutual. You can review intended parent profiles, participate in video interviews, ask questions about their expectations, decline matches that don't feel right, and specify preferences (local, international, family type).
Do I get to choose my intended parents?
Yes! The matching process is mutual. You can review intended parent profiles, participate in video interviews, ask questions about their expectations,...
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Do I get to choose my intended parents?
Yes! The matching process is mutual. You can review intended parent profiles, participate in video interviews, ask questions about their expectations,...
Reviewed Aug 8, 2025 1 min read
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Yes! The matching process is mutual. You can review intended parent profiles, participate in video interviews, ask questions about their expectations, decline matches that don't feel right, and specify preferences (local, international, family type).
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Reviewed by Patriot Conceptions Editorial Team. Last reviewed Aug 8, 2025.
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