Intended parents

Surrogacy Basics

Start with the questions that actually change your plan.

Who this path is for

Intended parents who want a structured path to surrogacy and need to decide whether their family plan, budget, and state fit are ready yet.

What to decide first

Budget range, family type, legal state fit, and whether you want agency support or are comparing models.

What to prepare

A realistic budget, embryo or clinic plan, a list of questions, and the main legal or logistical constraints you already know about.

What varies

Match timing, clinic coordination, legal review, insurance, and travel are all case-specific. Avoid assuming a fixed timeline.

Decision map

A better starting point than a generic overview

Intended parents usually need three answers first: what will this cost, whether the legal path works in the chosen state, and how the process will move from match to delivery. Everything else is secondary until those are clear.

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What to ask now

  • • What is my realistic budget range?
  • • Which state or legal structure fits my family plan?
  • • Do I want full agency support, or am I comparing models?
  • • What clinic, embryo, or donor steps need to happen first?
  • • What is the next decision if we are not ready today?

Next step

Use this page as a router, not a dead end

The point of the basics page is to get you to the right decision page faster. If cost is the issue, move to cost. If timing or legal fit is the issue, move to process and state law. If you want to compare programs, open the agency comparison guide.

What not to do

  • • Do not assume a fixed timeline from a brochure overview.
  • • Do not compare cost without checking what is included.
  • • Do not move forward without a state-law check if your plan is interstate or international.
  • • Do not rely on generic FAQ snippets when the decision is complex.

Learn + Resources

Need a better planning path?

Use the Learn Hub for family-type and planning guidance, then open the cost and process pages before you decide to apply.