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What Factors May Disqualify You From Becoming a Surrogate?

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Are you contemplating the fulfilling journey of becoming a surrogate mother? You're likely to have delved into numerous aspects of the process, from medical procedures and compensation, to legal requirements. However, one critical question remains: Am I eligible to become a surrogate?

Below are some frequently asked questions about the specific factors that could disqualify you from becoming a gestational carrier with Patriot Conceptions.

Q: Can I be a surrogate at any age?

A: Patriot Conceptions accepts surrogate applicants between the ages of 21 and 40. The fertility clinic reviews each candidate's pregnancy history and current health before final medical clearance.

Q: Can I be a surrogate anywhere in the United States?

A: Patriot Conceptions currently recruits in most U.S. states but not in Louisiana or Nebraska. Program routing and state law are different questions, and both can change. Confirm the current program route with the agency and obtain state-specific legal advice for your journey.

Q: Can I be a surrogate mother if I've never been pregnant?

A: The baseline program screen requires 1-5 prior live births, and the applicant should be raising at least one child. Prior pregnancies should have had no major complications, but the agency and fertility clinic review the full pregnancy and delivery history before any medical-clearance decision.

Q: Can I be a surrogate if I'm not married?

A: Absolutely. Being married is not a prerequisite. However, it's crucial to think about who will provide you with support throughout the surrogacy journey. You will indeed have your match manager at hand to answer queries and offer support, in addition to your Surrogate Sisterhood support group. But they only meet a part of your needs. From emotional support to day-to-day logistics like childcare and housekeeping, having a reliable support system is invaluable during your surrogacy engagement. Therefore, whether you're married or not, consider who in your life can provide this support.

Q: Can I be a surrogate mother after tubal ligation?

A: Yes. Tubal ligation, or getting your "tubes tied," does not affect your uterus, and you can still be a surrogate. Since your egg isn't involved in surrogate pregnancy, your fallopian tubes don't need to be functional for you to become pregnant as a surrogate through In Vitro Fertilization.

Q: Can I be a surrogate if I'm receiving federal/state financial assistance?

A: The program looks for financial stability, but there is no useful one-sentence rule for every form of assistance. Tell the coordinator what you receive so the current program can review it accurately.

Q: Does my Body Mass Index (BMI) matter?

A: Yes. Patriot Conceptions' baseline application screen requires a BMI under 35; exactly 35 is outside the baseline range. BMI is one part of the health review, and the fertility clinic makes the final medical-clearance decision.

For surrogacy, a healthy BMI is critical for several reasons. First, a BMI within the recommended range is associated with lower risks of developing complications during pregnancy and childbirth, such as gestational diabetes, pre-eclampsia, and the need for a cesarean section. These conditions can negatively impact both the surrogate and the baby's health.

Second, a lower BMI is associated with increased fertility, improving the chances of a successful embryo transfer, which is a crucial step in the surrogacy process.

Finally, maintaining a healthy BMI also indicates that you lead a healthy lifestyle, which is beneficial for the overall surrogacy journey. You can calculate your BMI here!

Q: Can I be a surrogate if I am not a U.S. citizen or legal permanent resident?

A: Patriot Conceptions' current program criterion is U.S. citizenship or legal permanent residency. This is an agency program rule, not a claim that every jurisdiction uses the same legal requirement.

Q: Is smoking or drug use a disqualifier?

A: The baseline program expects applicants not to smoke and to live in a smoke-free home. Disqualifying substance use, current medications, and relevant history are reviewed through the screening and clinic process.

Q: Does a history of arrests or substance abuse disqualify me?

A: Not every history can be reduced to an automatic public answer. Applicants must be willing to complete an authorized background check, and the team reviews background and substance-use history individually under the current screening process.

Q: Are there any medical or psychological evaluations required?

A: Yes. The journey can include obstetric-record review, medical and infectious-disease testing, psychological screening and counseling, insurance review, legal work, and clinic-specific evaluation. The fertility clinic makes the final medical-clearance decision.

Q: What if I think I am disqualified to be a surrogate mother?

A: If you are unsure, review the maintained requirements and ask a coordinator before assuming the answer. Submitting an application starts a review; it does not guarantee acceptance, matching, or medical clearance.

To view a comprehensive list of qualifications to be a surrogate mother, visit our website for surrogacy requirements. If you're interested in surrogacy, we'd be thrilled to hear more about you!

Calling All Potential Surrogates

Have you had a healthy and successful pregnancy? Are there people in your life who have struggled with infertility or need help growing their families? Have you ever thought about the significant role you could play in helping someone else build their family - as a surrogate? Discover more about the process and realize someone else's dream of family building. We would love to chat with you!

Frequently asked

Quick answers.

What are common requirements to become a surrogate?
Requirements vary by clinic and program, but often include a prior healthy pregnancy, age and health guidelines, non-smoking status, and medical/psychological screening. See our surrogacy requirements page for current criteria.
Can I be a surrogate if I'm not married?
Often yes. Programs typically focus on health, readiness, and a reliable support system. If you have a spouse or partner, their consent may be required depending on the clinic and legal setup.
Does BMI matter for surrogacy eligibility?
Many clinics use BMI guidelines because weight can influence pregnancy risks and medical protocols. Exact criteria vary—confirm your specific pathway with your clinic.
Can I be a surrogate if my tubes are tied?
Often yes for gestational surrogacy, because an embryo is transferred to the uterus and the surrogate does not use her own eggs. Final eligibility depends on medical screening.
What if I'm not sure I qualify?
If you're unsure, you can still apply to be a surrogate—screening helps clarify eligibility. You can also contact our team with questions before you start.
About this article

Surrogacy is a legal and medical-adjacent topic. This article is for informational purposes only and is not legal or medical advice.

Reviewed by Patriot Conceptions Editorial Team. Last reviewed Jul 25, 2023.