How much contact will I have with intended parents?

Contact varies by preference. During pregnancy: regular updates (weekly/monthly), attendance at key appointments, milestone celebrations together. Communication methods include video calls, text/email updates, private social media groups, in-person visits (if desired). After birth varies from annual updates to ongoing friendship, determined in matching phase.

Overview

This guide answers “How much contact will I have with intended parents?” from a surrogate perspective and outlines what typically happens, what can vary, and what to confirm with your clinic and agency.

Typical workflow (high level)

1. Confirm eligibility: requirements, records, and a quick pre-screen.
2. Screening: medical records review, background checks, and psychological screening.
3. Matching: profile review, introduction, and alignment on expectations.
4. Legal: agreements are reviewed and signed before medical steps proceed.
5. Medical cycle + transfer: the clinic manages timing, medications, and monitoring.
6. Pregnancy + delivery: ongoing care coordination through birth and postpartum wrap-up.

What can vary (and why)

• Clinic schedules and medical protocols (individualized to the situation).
• State and international legal requirements (especially for parentage workflows).
• Matching preferences and availability (fit matters).
• Insurance and financial structure (coverage details can change).
• Logistics like travel, time zones, and appointment availability.

Questions to ask (so you don’t get surprised later)

• What are the next 2–3 steps in my specific situation?
• What documents or records should I prepare before we start?
• Which decisions should I make now vs later?
• Who will be my primary point of contact during the journey?
• How will we communicate and share updates (email, calls, portal)?
• What are the typical milestones from start to finish?
• What support is available during pregnancy (coordination, counseling, emergency support)?
• What expenses are covered and how do reimbursements work?

Next steps

• Surrogacy requirements
• Apply as a surrogate
• Surrogacy process
• Contact our care team

Important note

This page is educational information only and is not medical, legal, or tax advice. Always confirm specifics with qualified professionals and your care team.

See the sources section below for reference links when available.